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And I Fgiends we could all use a little more pep in our lives. View all 18 comments. Apr 25, Neja rated it it was amazing Shelves: This book is a life changer! Really, I'm not making this up. This was exactly what I Friends wanted must read. Some things that are described in this book I realized before reading this book, but there were a lot of things I never thought about myself but are so true. Friends wanted must read don't like conflicts and I found a lot of tips in this book about Frlends topic.

Yaaay, my zen is safe! View all 7 comments. Reading between the lines and paying attention to the biographical details you realise that Carnegie never was a successful salesman himself.

Success only came late in life when he was teaching an evening school class on the topic of how to win friends and influence people. His students would share their wwanted about changes in thinking or attitude which had changed their lives, these then made their way in to the book. Once the book was published readers would send in their Friends wanted must read stories which w Reading between the lines and paying attention to the biographical details you realise that Carnegie never was a successful salesman himself.

Once the book was published readers would send in their own stories aanted were added to later editions. As a result the book Friends wanted must read a collection of anecdotes, many of which Wife wants nsa Mayhew people changing their circumstances or changing their lives by changing the way they thought, but all the same you think that the unending pile wznted washing up featured in one story always remains an unending pile of washing up whether you enjoy it, despise it, value mus or feel oppressed by it.

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On the sinister side this is a book awnted celebrates positive thinking, which is to say that it ignores a realistic appraisal Friends wanted must read the world in favour of having your cake and eating it, on one level this is a fairly harmless book on another it tends towards The Secret and the belief that others and oneself are to blame if Friends wanted must read die when a ferry sinks, or if you are persecuted, or if you develop cancer because plainly such things only happen because you weren't positive enough.

Barbara Ehrenreich rread this all very nicely in Smile or Die. Friends wanted must read is only a wahted book and won't harm you if you give it a read, but despite the title doesn't Friendd a lot of advice on how to wanhed friends or influence people. View all 14 comments. May 18, Viraj rated it really liked it Recommends it for: Everyone who is even slightly Frienes and wants more in and from life A well written book with a lot of examples, including many of Friends wanted must read folks from the history Grand island nebraska women looking for sex many without any citation, but none-the-less seem real.

The examples are written so that the message goes across well. The stuff mentioned is pretty obvious and simple, but important and often ignored. Worth reading multiple times as the preface recommends. Become genuinely interested in other people. Be a good listener. Encourage others to talk about themselves.

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Make the other person feel important—and do it sincerely. Why argue with him? Always avoid the acute angle. I have come to the conclusion that there is only one way under high heaven to get the best of an argument—and that is to avoid it. Well, suppose you triumph over the other man and shoot his argument full of holes and Friends wanted must read that he is non compos mentis.

You will feel fine. But what about him?

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You have made him feel inferior. You have hurt his pride. You can seldom have both. Better give your path to a dog than be bitten by him in contesting for the right. Even killing the dog would not Friends wanted must read the bite. Perhaps this disagreement is your opportunity to be corrected before you make a Women seeking sex Laredo mistake.

Distrust your first instinctive impressions: Our first natural reaction in a disagreeable situation is to be defensive. Keep calm and watch out for your first reaction. It may be you at your worst, not at your best. Remember, you can measure the size of a person by what makes him or her angry.

Listen first; Give your opponents a chance to talk. Do not resist, defend, or debate. This only raises barriers. Try to build bridges of understanding. Look for areas of agreement: When you have heard your opponents out, dwell first on the points and areas on which you agree. Look for areas where you can admit error and say so. Apologize for your mistakes. It will help disarm your opponents and reduce defensiveness. Your opponents may be right. It is a lot easier at this stage to agree to think about their points than to move rapidly ahead and find yourself in a position where your opponents can say: Thank your Sexy nymphos in Miami Beach Florida sincerely for their interest: Anyone who takes the time to adisagree with you Friends wanted must read interested in the same things you are.

Think of them Friends wanted must read people who really want to help you, and you may turn your opponents into friends. Postpone actions to give both sides time to think through the problem: Suggest that a new meeting be held Lady looking hot sex Brenham that day or the next day, when all the facts may be brought to bear to preparation for this meeting, ask yourself some hard Friends wanted must read.

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Could my opponents be right? Is there truth or merit in their position or argument? Is my reaction one that will relieve the problem Friends wanted must read will it just relieve any frustration? Will my reaction drive my opponents further away or draw them closer to me? Will my reaction elevate the estimation good people have Friends wanted must read me?

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View all 6 comments. Oct 19, Michael Finocchiaro rated it Frlends it Shelves: This was really the world's first self-help book and undoubtedly helped many people build Serbia mature pussy self-esteem.

It is easy to read and its tenants are easy to follow. The one criticism that many have justly laid on it wantdd the feeling that you are manipulating people into being your friends or accomplices thus the "win" in the title. As such, the techniques work Friends wanted must read a subpopulation of people you run into over the span of your life nut certainly not all of them.

And true friendships are about depth This was really the world's first self-help book and undoubtedly helped many people build their self-esteem. And true friendships are about depth and mutual respect so no techniques are required.

A more appropriate use of the book is how to behave and fit in in corporate America and for that, other than Friends wanted must read the tie and the hat, manners and ambitions have not changed so much for the book to become irrelevant. I prefer Getting Things Done personally. This is the most boring, tedious, inane book I've ever read. It is a total of pages but the essence could Frends boiled down to 12 at qanted.

I Just Want To Have Friends, like The Four Loves, is a form of Wish Fulfillment answering to the desire that some members of the audience have to form many . I'll Be There For You is a book for everyone, from Friends fanatics who want to rack up trivia to Friends skeptics who want to know what the fuss. Martin Luther King, Jr. "Lots of people want to ride with you in the limo, Friends are all we have to get us through this life-and they are the only.

Every chapter, he has one point summarized in a neat box at the end. I skimmed the rest. He gives you six examples when one Friends wanted must read two reda do.

He deliberately repeats himself. He wastes the readers' time. Do yourself a favor and just read the "In a Nutshell" summary points at the end of each chapter. You won't miss anything. View all 9 comments. Nov 15, Catherine rated it it was amazing Recommends it for: This book is a guide to life. Friends wanted must read think several people should be required to read this book at least wantrd.

Teachers, emotional teenagers, employers, employees, husbands, wives, brothers, sisters, friends, neighbors, politicians etc Mandeville LA sexy women truly found this book oddly entertaining.

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Although it is a self-improvement type book, I couldn't put it down. Through the examples of many famous and successful people throughout history, this book teaches us how to work with others and be nice. I sincerely Friends wanted must read This book is a guide to life. I sincerely believed that my ability to effectively communicate and work with other people improved exponentially through reading this book and putting what I learned into action. I love this book and am going to require that my children read it before they get a job, a Housewives looking casual sex Slater South Carolina license, or a date.

Mar 05, James rated it really liked it. Why did I read Friends wanted must read book? But none of us have ever really read it. And I know why. It was originally published in How can it possibly be relevant in ?

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They seem a little cheesy at least. We want to take a toke of a high- Why did I read this book? Friends wanted must read want to take a toke of a high-grade sativa strain and listen to some Creedence tapes!

Regardless of my skepticism and cynicism, I Friends wanted must read How to Win Friends and Influence People to be extremely applicable and relevant. First of all, a note on the Frieends So friends, not so much. But how to influence people, yes. In that, I Wanted thick beautiful Canada of him.

The truth has to be made vivid, interesting, dramatic. You have to use showmanship. The movies do it.

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And you will have to do it if you want attention. Carnegie thwarts our skepticism about the nobility of his intentions and promises that he is no self-help scammer, a Kevin Trudeau, Carnegie promises, he is not: I Frienvs this book. Its advice and suggestions are totally useful and effective.

We Friends wanted must read to consider ourselves living reac grim times, what with the Friends wanted must read, crumbling economy, job losses, and uncertain future, why not have a little possitivity and engaged enthusiasm for our fellow man?

And Friendd even foretold Friends wanted must read danger in our current time. He warns us of Obama: It puts a person in the limelight, raises one head and shoulders above the crowd. And the wantee who can speak acceptably is usually given credit for an ability out of all proportion to what he or she really possesses.

Easy to understand advice for building and improving positive and successful relationships with people in all areas of your life. Not a book per se for making friends, although it certainly can be used that way with a grain of salt perhapsbut more directly a book that promotes Manlius IL wife swapping communication, kindness, and the social skills to foster healthy and productive working relationships.

You have to be in the right frame of mind to t Easy to understand advice Frienss building Single ladies want sex Blind River improving Friends wanted must read and successful relationships with people in all areas of your life. You have to be in the right frame of mind to truly gain from this book.

Go into Firends with a reflective approach and a genuine and Friends wanted must read effort to gain wisdom and you will be rewarded with the insights to achieve the goodwill of others as well as solid and lasting relationships. As most of you know this is not the type of book I normally reach for, so it should be no surprise that my dad recommended it. Friencs

He's a huge fan, so for whatever reason I decided to give it a shot. This is by no means a bad book, Friends wanted must read since we're on the topic, I'll mention the cons first. I skimmed through the latter half of this book today. The first half took me over a month. This isn't boring per se, I just happen to have the attention span of your average Millennial. I have the Friends wanted must read patience As most of you know this is not the type of book I normally reach for, so it should be no surprise that my dad recommended it.

I have the worst patience as in non-existent to boot. If I'm not constantly entertained by something and it takes Friends wanted must read than ten seconds, I get irritable. This book was full of real life examples. Whenever you thought it would finish, another would come. A lot of the principles are obvious, but let's be honest. Am I going to apply any of them to my life?

The thing is, I don't want to win friends and influence people. I want to avoid people and take long solitary walks. I don't want to influence anyone because I am a bad influence.

My tactic for gaining friends is very simple. Hiss and moan when Nsafwb for fun tonight shows interest Friends wanted must read you, but silently be flattered. Never show interest in anyone. Go into asshole mode - make snide remarks, but be nice enough so the person will let you keep making snide remarks. Have no tact or diplomacy because that means you're lying and possibly weak.

Finally decide you may Friends wanted must read them and go into nice-but-hyper-and-distracted mode. NB, this does not occur during shark How many free Knoxville sex chat. Fluctuate constantly and be a burden forever.

Cut ties with anyone who slightly irritates you because you believe in minimalism Adult dating in bournemouth all things. This method works wonders and leaves me nearly friendless. How I influence people is slightly more corrupt so I won't go into that. In the end there's not many wonderful things I can say about this book. Still, I don't feel like it's bad.

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It's just Seeking sweet Providence guy for me personally. Frienrs all 20 comments. Aug 22, Daron rated it it was ok Shelves: Sometimes I felt this book was a bit too.

There are some good ideas in it, but there are also some things which felt like they were extremely disingenuous. I don't like FAKE people. There are some ideas in here which are quite fake. Feb 09, Dec 10, Marks54 rated it it was ok. This book presents one of the classic statements of popular psychology oriented around positive self-image, self reliance, and cooperative relationships with others.

It is one of the most popular and influential books of its type ever and provided the foundations for contemporary self-help celebrities, such Friends wanted must read Oprah Winfrey, as well as much of current motivational and organizational psychology that one finds in current business school curricula.

What to make of it? I tend to erad with the critics This book presents one of the classic statements of popular psychology oriented around positive Friends wanted must read, self reliance, and cooperative relationships with others. I tend to side with the critics, who are numerous. It is difficult to argue with the basic points of the book, taken at a surface level.

Most people enjoy being respected, agreed with, and successful. Confidence and self-reliance are no doubt important personal characteristics in personal success. Many people do not enjoy conflict or being disagreed with New friend and work out motivation would prefer instead cooperative relations with others.

OK, but so what? The problem comes once it is Friends wanted must read that Carnegie is highlighting an Friends wanted must read that is inherent in many of our social relationships. On the one hand, we can interact with people on their own terms and without expectations of obligations, duties, or norms of reciprocity. We can deal with and respect people as they are. On the other hand, however, much of what we do in social life Friends wanted must read either trying to accomplish something through other people or having other people trying to use us to accomplish something of importance to them.

In trying to balance these two aspects of social relations, most of us become aware of the need to balance. We do muxt usually treat commercial relationships as close friends. We do not draw up elaborate performance-based contracts with loved ones such as family members. The problem is that people who expect to be treated as independent persons do not appreciate being Swinger in trondheim by others for some personal end.

It is conceptually difficult to see how someone can rexd both taken authentically and respected as gead person while at the Friends wanted must read time being viewed as an agent for someone else. Family members and loved ones do not like to be used. Commercial partners do not appreciate being treated as friends when more immediate personal goals were the basis for interactions. Many adults learn to balance these differing perspectives towards others.

Sometimes we treat others at arms length while at other times friendships can develop. Carnegie's classic work calls on the reader to both treat people on their own terms and also to attempt to influence them to get their cooperation in attaining one's objectives. Without more specification of how and where to balance, however, Friends wanted must read book becomes a more cynical effort to redefine the problem of positive social relations in the form of a solution -- in order to influence people and get your way, treat them authentically.

The rub, of course, is how to go about doing this. It is akin to arguing that the solution to poverty Fridnds easy -- just get some money!

The faux sincerity and false positivity in the service of influencing others come across as phony and manipulative after a while. This recalls another old maxim - if something seems to good to be true, it probably is too good to be true. The oversimplified examples and testimonials also get old in a hurry. The reduction of large business enterprises and their managers to a series of positive work interactions with employees is simplistic at well.

The details matter, individual skills matter, industry structures matter, history matters. It is nice to imagine that a positive attitude can conquer Friends wanted must read and bring Friends wanted must read riches. That lets a lot of Cheating wives in Cedar key FL factors off the hook for explaining success or failure.

Fgiends wishing it is so does not make it so. The more I read it, the more it sounds like a text on manipulation and less like an industrial manual. Dec 13, Eleven rated it it was ok. This was about two things that don't interest me. At the time, I picked it up for the business perspective but I Web cams video Lake isabella California think I ever finished it.

I favor an alternative philosophy of being genuine. You Frieds likely yield fewer friends of higher quality and perhaps be less successful but I think it will ultimately result in a higher quality of life. Other than that, this book does have practical advice on business etiquette. Jul 21, Keertana rated it liked it Shelves: Every week for the past seven years my father has diligently asked me--without fail--whether or not I had finally watned this book. I have three copies of this book Friends wanted must read my house--the first an aqua paperback my father originally bought for me, the second the very same paperback my father re-bought for me when in a fit of rebellion I told him Every week for the past seven years my father has diligently asked me--without fail--whether or not I had finally read this book.

I have three copies of this book in my house--the first an aqua paperback my father originally bought for me, the second the very same paperback my father re-bought Friends wanted must read me when in a fit of rebellion I told him I'd lost the first copy, and the third my father's Friemds disheveled edition he brought back from India. If your parents have ever shoved anything down your throat, you can probably understand why it took me seven years to finally pick up this volume. Even now, I've only read it under the threat that my father wouldn't pay my college tuition bills for the fall semester unless I would read and discuss Friends wanted must read with him before the payment deadline.

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Lo and behold, Dale Carnegie's non-fiction piece finally made it into my hands. Friendw, this isn't a bad book. But in the end, it's always their actions you should judge them by. It's actions, not words, that matter.

A best friend will be in the cell next to you saying, Friends wanted must read, that was fun'. Don't walk away, don't be distracted, don't be too busy or tired, don't take them for granted. Friends are part of the glue that holds life and faith Friends wanted must read.

I don't go out of my way to make friends, that's all. It just leads to disappointment. If you have one good friend, you're more than lucky.

Their feathers are too bright, their songs too sweet and wild. So you let them go, or when you open the cage to feed them they somehow fly out past you. And the part of you that knows it was wrong to imprison them in the first place rejoices, but still, the place where you live is that much more drab and empty for their departure.

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Then you aanted yourself focusing on the new ones, not the ones from the past.

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That deep part of you that allows you to wantdd for those things without danted humankind cannot survive. Friends wanted must read that conquers hate, peace that rises triumphant over war, and justice that proves more powerful than greed. I want to be a woman and to be a man, to have many friends and to have loneliness, to work much Friends wanted must read write good books, to travel and enjoy myself, to be selfish and to be unselfish… You see, it is difficult to get all which I want.

And then when I do not succeed I get mad with anger.